I’ve been seeing my stylist for a few years now. She always does the same thing. I want something new ! I show her pictures and tell her what I want, but she still does what she wants. How do I break up with my hairstylist ? A. This is one of the hardest decisions you’ll ever have to make.. if you can change the relationship to make both of you happy then you should do that. First, let your stylist know you’re unhappy. Let her know whySecond, tell her what will make you happy… (new hairstyle, color, etc.) I know that sounds cheesy but it can work Now all you do is see if she follows through. Did she give you the haircut and hairstyle you’ve been looking for Did she finally color your hair the way you want and not the way she wantsIf so, then you should give her another chance and if not just stop going to her All in all you’ve tried all you could, but it just isn’t working out. This is when you find a new updated stylist. Someone who’s up for change, when you’re ready, not when they’re ready.